The PE Survival Guide: How to Tell Your Partner

Posted by Admin under Uncategorized on Thursday Aug 25, 2011

As a man, sometimes it’s hard to remember that premature ejaculation does not only embarrass and disappoint you, but can be harsh and disappointing to your partner as well.

Premature ejaculation is a problem that every man has faced at one time or another, but when it becomes a chronic problem, many men don’t know how to talk it out with their partners, out of embarrassment, fear of losing them as a lover or companion, or just not knowing where to start with it.

Situations like premature ejaculation are where being in a committed relationship may help you the most. When you’re in a committed relationship, then you have the openness and are not embarrassed to talk about your most intimate problems in front of your significant other. There are many ways to talk about premature ejaculation with your partner, and this is where being in a committed relationship can help you the most. Attending couple-only therapy or counseling sessions may be the best bet if you have no idea how to confront the problem as a couple, but if you have an idea about the cause of your premature ejaculation, then talking to your partner one-on-one might be the best solution to try first, before trying other tips to last longer in bed.

One of the first keys to great sex is focusing on your partner’s pleasure. Likewise, if you decide to talk with your partner about premature ejaculation, then the first thing to remember is to not only talk about how premature ejaculation affects you adversely, but how it affects your partner negatively as well. Just think about it: when you experience premature ejaculation, intercourse has ended abruptly, often without any warning to your partner. Your partner may be slightly peeved, or even angry afterward at a variety of things- the fact that she couldn’t “finish” before you did, the fact that she’s not satisfied, or the simple fact that the sudden drop in emotion was like dropping her off an emotional cliff.

Perhaps you’re asking: “What’s the best way I can confront this along with my partner, instead of by myself”. Firstly, the best thing you can do as a “team” is to relax. Getting nervous or anxious because of the situation will do nothing for you but make matters worse. If premature ejaculation has been a chronic problem, then there are a variety of routines and exercises that can be done together as a “team”, before investing in a more formal medical solution, such as dapoxetine.

The most famous of these is what’s known as the “squeeze technique” or the “squeeze method”. This method was developed by the famous sex researchers Masters and Johnson. A couple should be warned- techniques like the squeeze technique take some practice in order to see results- don’t start these types of exercises unless you plan to “practice”, and be a little patient while “practice” is going on as well.

Brenton A. Gilbert is a freelance writer who writes about men’s health issues such as how to last longer in bed and erectile dysfunction. Much of his work focuses on the connection between health, psychology, and relationships. In his spare time, Brenton enjoys reading, painting, and in his words, “practical research and exploration of relationship dynamics with my wonderful girlfriend.”

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Erotic Books

Posted by Admin under Uncategorized on Thursday Aug 25, 2011

The sale of erotic books is on the rise. No surprise, erotica is one genre of literature that never loses its fame. Why not, it has kept men and women awake all night for hundreds of years! This genre has survived through the years because it can be good company for everybody, regardless of whether they are having great sex or not. If you are looking for a way to rekindle the spark in your relationships as when you met the first time, you can get help from erotica.

Reading erotic books with your partner can help both of you understand each others needs. Many erotic books dissect human psychology and what they tend to expect from their sex life. The romance and the eroticism that you learn from the book can easily be applied to your life. Though, understand that you may not be able to embrace everything. The fictitious books are imagination and not all imagination can be materialized.

Such books are a perfect gift for your valentine. You can give your girl or guy a good erotic book as a gift that suits his or her needs. You can get books that are hardcore, soft, funny, or witty and so on. Depending on what excites your partner, you can choose the same. Hardcore books are a good choice if you are not the kind of person who is excited easily or if you want to learn some new techniques that you can use in bed. Soft books are good if you are new to the field of erotica. It might take you time to become accustomed to eroticism. If you want a twist in the scene and want to laugh your heart out, there are funny erotic books available too.

Are you still wondering whether you should try erotic books? Are you afraid that you might become addicted to sex? This might be the case for many; however, you should know how to control yourself. Getting addicted to such book can actually be a big obstacle in your day-to-day routine. If you think about the events in the book all the time and consequently cannot take your mind off sex, then it can create havoc in your life. But it is alright to spend an hour or two at night reading or even during vacation.

Finally, a suggestion; you need to have an erotic mind to get the best from erotic books. Yes, you need to lose yourself in bed and tell yourself that you are ready to get excited. A free mind and a conviction to be charged sexually can help you get rid of all the hustle and bustle of the day. It is time to forget all the bad things that happened or are happening to you. Give your full attention to the book itself. Also, help your partner to be tension free when its time to make love and let that electricity in you pass to him or her.

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A Sex Educator’s View of Premature Ejaculation

Posted by Admin under Uncategorized on Thursday Aug 25, 2011

After almost 20 years in the field of sexuality education, talking about sexual dysfunctions is nothing new. Yet I am constantly amazed at how many people suffer from sexual dysfunctions and do nothing about it. They suffer in silence because they are too embarrassed or do not know there is help available to help overcome such problems.

Sexuality is a quality of life issue yet so many people settle for less than they deserve when it comes to sexual function.

Premature ejaculation is a treatable condition. That needs to be shouted from the rooftops. In fact, not only is it the most common sexual dysfunction among males, it is also one of the most treatable. It is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about and with a little effort on the man’s part there is no reason why excellent ejaculatory control cannot be achieved.

Some things to consider are: Does it happen all the time or just once in a while? All men lose control once in a while from over excitement, or if it has been a while since they have had sex for example. But if it happens on a regular basis then it is something that may need to be addressed if it I causing distress to the man and/or his partner. How is the man defining premature ejaculation? I get questions from men who tell me their erection lasts an hour but they think that they have premature ejaculation because it isn’t long enough to satisfy them. While premature ejaculation is ejaculating before you want to, it does not refer to men who can keep their erection for an hour. Rather, it is usually an erection that lasts a very short period of time. Sometimes men ejaculate right at the moment of penetration. Sometimes they don’t make it to penetration. Sometimes they make it to penetration but make it only a few thrusts after that. The main factor in premature ejaculation is control. Or lack of control is a better term. The man simply cannot control it and no matter how he tries to stop it or slow it down he can’t.

Men and their partners can get into an endless cycle of attempting to have sex, lost of ejaculatory control, disappointment, embarrassment and then another attempt to have sex. It is not unusual for couples to simply stop trying to have sex rather than communicate about the problem and look for ways to solve it. This can certainly affect intimacy in a relationship when one or both partners withdraw.

So if you or your partner is having an issue with ejaculatory control, do something about it. Stop letting yourself be robbed of pleasure and intimacy. There is help available!

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Tips on Kissing

Posted by Admin under Uncategorized on Thursday Aug 25, 2011

here are many ways to describe a kiss.

The French see it as an art whereas scientists see it as a natural thing in human behavior. A kiss must be special and have passion.

There are a few important rules to consider with these tips on kissing.

* You must truly have feelings for the person that is receiving this kiss as well as know that a kiss is more than those who are “just friends”.

As the saying goes “it all began with a kiss”, a powerful relationship is born when you kiss someone so be ready for your relationship to grow passionately and intimately.

Now there are many types of kisses.

From the simple peck on the cheek, to the French twist, each one has a powerful meaning and consideration must be taken in if one is to have the right relationship.

* Typically a peck on the cheek means, “I care for you but not intimately or sexually” and is often a sign of family love.
* When it is a kiss on the lips, it may give off the signal of desire but not strongly. It is a sign of deeper love and carries more meaning behind it.
* However, the most powerful kiss is that of tongue. Known as the French twist or simply as “tongue”, with its many names comes its powerful meaning. Its shows a passionate and highly intimate relationship and must be saved for true love otherwise a relationship will lead into consequential results.

There are not many people who can say they French kissed on the first date and still are together to this day. It must be something saved for when love is strongest.

Now for those who want detail on French kissing rather than simple tips on kissing, worry not for that is not a difficult task. A common trick is to practice tying a cherry stem into a knot.

My advice, (now this contradicts my earlier statements a little) is to find someone, maybe a friend you are close to, that does not mind practicing kissing with you. That way you know there is nothing behind the kiss besides learning how to (still I advise you to be careful because it may lead to troublesome conflicts if you are not careful with each other’s emotions).

A kiss is a special bond between two people. Only they can understand its full meaning. And nothing in the world compares to the variety of emotion left in a kiss.

Adam F. Bellman is a passionate fan of the game Truth or Dare. Many got their first kiss with this game of in a round of “Spin the Bottle.” You can find more about kissing there!

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Manchester Escorts

Posted by Admin under Uncategorized on Wednesday Aug 24, 2011

Manchester is the home of the world famous football team Manchester UTD. However it is also home to one of the best escort agencies in Europe – Secrets Manchester Escorts. These girls are fricking hot and they are waiting to give you a night to remember.
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