Health Benefits Of Sex

Posted by admin under Uncategorized on Sunday Nov 27, 2011

Sex is a good thing for grown ups. Doing it regularly or at least once in a week is very beneficial for the body. Some great benefits of sex include relief from stress, burned calories and soothing and satisfying sleep. These are just few of the many benefits of indulging in sexual activities. In this article let us find out more about the main positive aspects of indulging in sex.

Relief From Pain
You would be surprised to know that sex is a great way to get relief from pain. When a person is about to experience an orgasm, oxytocin levels rise by about five times in the body which helps in releasing endorphins which are helpful in alleviating pain. Headaches, PMS symptoms and arthritis pain reduce greatly after a good sexual session.

High Immunity Levels
Indulging in sexual intercourse twice or once in a week boosts immunity levels because sex increases the levels of immunoglobulin A (IgA) which is an immunity boosting antibody. Hence people who are sexually active tend to suffer less from conditions like flu and cold.

Low Stress Levels
A satisfying sexual encounter is a great mood up-lifter. A recent report has concluded that people who regularly indulge in sexual activities are more happier, at ease with themselves and are better prepared to face any type of stress levels. When an orgasm happens oxytocin levels increase in the body which act as tension relief agents as well as also help in building a strong emotional bond with your partner.

Long Life
This is one of the most important benefit of sex. Satisfying sex or an orgasm releases DHEA in the body which releases tension and enhances immunity levels. It also helps in repairing damaged tissue as well as improves skin health. A study conducted in the UK suggests that men who have at least two orgasms in a week live longer than the ones who do not indulge in sex at all or only do it once In a month.

Satisfying and healthy sex with someone you love from your heart has potential survival benefits. Actions like cuddling, hugging and stroking help in promoting feelings of oneness and love and build strong emotional bonds. We all know that any touch of love promotes healing from any health condition.

So next time you indulge in sexual activities you know that sex is not all about fun but it has many benefits which can make you experience heaven like feelings on earth.

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How To Restore Sexual Libido In Your Relationship

Posted by admin under Uncategorized on Sunday Nov 27, 2011

Are you unhappy with your sex life because she has little or lack of sexual desire? What can you do when you are faced with this situation?

Do you have any of the following symptoms-

(a) You have sex maybe 10-12 times in 3 years
(b) She has little or no interest in sex and any other sexual activities
(c) Sex becomes a chore for her
(d) You initiate almost all sexual activities
(e) When she does initiate it, she wants to quickly get over with it
(f) You no longer have any sexual fantasies about your partner
(g) You do not feel connected to each other emotionally and sexually
(h) You increasingly feel lonely, dissatisfied, unloved and empty

If you have one or more of the above symptoms, you are likely to face the situation of a low or no-sex relationship or sexless marriage. There may be many underlying reasons for a woman to be not interested in sex and it is very normal for you to feel frustrated when you have unmet expectations.

Here are a few suggestions that you can try at least to start the ball rolling in order to reverse this trend of decreasing sexual desire.

(1) Reclaim your sexual side for yourself

Orgasm is a great stress reliever and there is a need for an outlet for your sexual release. A way you can do is to masturbate. This will help to keep your emotions in check if the level of frustration continues to intensify. Do remember that it is your responsibility to keep in touch with your own physical needs.

(2) Touch her in non-sexual ways

Studies have shown that a simple touch can reduce anxiety, lower blood pressure, decrease pain and fear, inhibit loneliness and release endorphins in the brain that not only make us feel loved, but want to give love in return.

Affection and non-sexual touch can build trusts, deepen intimacy and strengthen a relationship. Holding hands, hugging, kissing and gentle massage of the neck, shoulders and back are wonderful ways to show affection without the pressure of sex. You need to break the touch barrier that is happening between the both of you.

(3) Have a heart-to-heart talk

You can put across how you feel to your woman in a non-confrontation way. You can say something like this – “I love you. I feel that something that is important to me is missing in our relationship. I need a more intimate relationship.” Then ask her to set aside a time to have the most open and honest conversation about sex that you can ever have with her.

If she says no, ask if she would prefer to do it with the help of trained personnel such as marriage counselor or a sex therapist who is non-judgmental and unbiased. If she still says no, tell her that being in a sexless marriage is not what you want and you are willing to work with her to make life together better and that you are asking her to be willing to do the same.

During the open and honest conversation there is a need to find out about your woman’s sexuality such as whether she ever feels sexy, either alone or with you; whether she can pinpoint anything that happen to her in the past that can cause her to hold back sexually; has she ever masturbated or have an orgasm; any reasons for her for not wanting to have sex.

There is a need on your part to be dedicated and patient enough to help her discover her sexuality, possibly for the first time. You must also be willing to do whatever it takes to let her feel comfortable enough to feel sexual.

You need to tell her that you feel unloved, dissatisfied and empty when being trapped in a low-sex or sexless situation. Explain to her that you are willing to do anything to make sure she will enjoy a sexual relationship with you as much as you will.

If her level of sexual experience is an issue, offer to show her what feels good for you. Also ask her to show you what feels good to her, the better if she is willing to masturbate in front of you. Help her to embrace her sexuality and encourage her to share it with you. Learning how to love and please each other is a great bonding experience which can help to strengthen a relationship.

Living in a sexless relationship for long times is very stressful and unhealthy physically, mentally and emotionally. All it takes is the willingness to invest the time and energy to do whatever it takes to save your marriage/relationship by revitalizing your sex life.

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Mega-Brothel Rejected By Competition

Posted by admin under Uncategorized on Tuesday Nov 15, 2011

Australia, one of the few nations that allow legal brothels rejected a proposal for a mega-brothel. This is a major setback for Sydney escorts service. The mega brothels rejection was not only based on the increase in competition for other brothels but also noise levels and image of the local community. One council member, Councilman Shayne Mallard, referred to the proposed renovation as being the ‘Westfield of brothels’; a comparison to Australia’s largest chain- store. The brothel, an expansion on an already present business would have doubled the number of rooms and added in a larger room for group activities.

The mega brothel is the idea of Eddie Hayson, the owner of Artazan Property Group. His idea to extend the Stiletto brothel would have cost $12 million AUD or 12.4 million USD. The renovations would have over shadowed competitors and caused clustering, something Sydney’s city council wants to avoid. Citizens voiced their opinions of how the renovation would disrupt the local area. From increased noise volume, to reduced parking spaces, safety, the fear of a possible addition of a sex shop and increased anti social behavior in the local community where brought up, along with some citizens voicing their dislike of how the Sydney escorts business is run.

While the Mayor, Clover Moore, insisted that the expansion would not upset the local community all 10 members voted the expansion out. The council members rejected the proposal citing the increased size, competition and other cons the expansion would have brought. While the brothel has a good business management record, the expansion brought up a future city council issue -restricting the size of such establishments. Other cities, such as Brisbane and Melbourne already have size limits in place for brothels and different zoning laws for brothels and regular businesses.

The council was quick to add that they were not against brothels within the city stating ‘we are not prudes,’ but where against the cluttering of brothels as the city has an anti- cluster policy, stating the brothels must be at a minimum of 75 meters apart or 246.75 feet apart. Councilman Shayne Mallard has called for a review of the city’s zoning, application and other policies for brothels. While there currently is not a policy limiting the size or addition to existing brothels, Councilman Mallard, who is not against brothels, stated that the main reason the plan was rejected was because of the sheer scale and size of what this mega brothel would be like in a neighborhood. As many residents could handle small scale brothers up to eight rooms, but a brothel with 40 would be hard for some residents to invasion.

The city of Sydney does support legal and regulated brothels. They do however have a growing problem with illegal brothels, even with the current brothel friendly legislations and laws. As Sydney changes its practices to implements new regulations, zoning codes and governances, the Sydney escorts services can be sure to grow and flourish within the city and surrounding areas.

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Being an escort: Can it cause emotional damage?

Posted by admin under Uncategorized on Tuesday Nov 15, 2011

Being a Sydney escort isn’t a job one aspires to be, or something that one planes to do. Many people fall into the job out of necessities, accident, or desperation. This job, which is known for being one of the oldest there is, can take a lot out of a person emotionally.
Which brings up the question; can being an escort damage one’s emotional stability?

There are a few things to consider with this statement.

Was the person who went into said profession already experiencing emotional issues? Was the person abused or mistreated, or just in a bad mental state of mind before? If they were, than it’s not likely this kind of job would “heal” them and their issues, but they can’t blame it for their lack of emotional stability either. In this case, being an escort might not cause emotional distress.

Maybe the person was fine before they became a Sydney escort and it didn’t bother them till they had something happen to them. Again, maybe they were mistreated or abused, or someone betrayed them. In this case, one could argue that being an escort for this person has damaged them and perhaps they should seek other options for themselves.

There are people who go into the profession of a Sydney escort with no emotional hang-ups and come out of it unscathed. They wanted to do it, set out a goal, became tired of it, or found something better to do. For these people, the job didn’t damage them.

There is another group who could be damaged emotionally by being in this industry, if they have been forced into it. This does happen, more often than not and for those people whom are being held captive and forced to do this against their will, it will damage them emotionally and mentally and it may get worse for the them.

Some people may be damaged emotionally because they don’t want to address and examine their life and what has brought them to where they are right now. Did they do this with open eyes, and a clear mind? Did they do this because they wanted to? Did they do this because they felt desperate with no way out? Maybe now they see that this isn’t any better and might choose something else for their lives. There are always options, and maybe this is the only one right now, but hopefully they’ll be other’s soon.

The best bet for emotional stability as an escort is to stay clear of drama.
Don’t have any serious relationships. There aren’t many who can be that understanding about this job and all that it entails. The one’s who don’t understand, will always fight about the job, it will come from a place of concern for one’s health and well-being. If one isn’t ready to leave the job someone’s significant other does, it will always be a bump in the road and will not get better over time. For those that don’t have a problem with the job, well that’s great but there can still be some issues. Maybe they won’t help one find some other way to live, some other kind of life, and thus never even think about leaving it.

Keep a clear mind, stay off the drugs. This is a hard pill to swallow since doing drugs might have been what landed some in this spot in the first place. If it didn’t than don’t start now, it will only cloud one’s judgment and make it even harder to leave and can lead to lots of emotional and physical issues as well.

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Is Sex Sinful?

Posted by Admin under Uncategorized on Thursday Aug 25, 2011

Hundreds of thousands, more than likely millions, of people have grown up being taught that sex is a sin. It is considered dirty and should only be done to produce new life, and even then it should be done quickly and with extreme secrecy. In some ancient societies, if a woman was raped within a town or village not only was her attacker stoned to death, but so was she! One can only imagine that sex was considered so evil that the victim in such a situation had become violently tainted and should not be allowed to live for fear that she would taint others who she might come into contact with. This is, perhaps, an extreme view of sex as sinful, but when the idea that the body and sensuality is dirty and despicable becomes so deeply ingrained in a society’s perception these extremist views can arise.

Shortly after babies are born it is natural for them to touch their genitals. Unless they are taught that such touching is disgusting and wrong, they will likely continue to touch their bodies as they grow. I recall visiting with a friend of mine many years ago. At the time her youngest son was six-years-old. He was sitting on the couch and commented, “Mommy, my pee-pee hurts. It is hard. If I rub it, it feels better.” Her initial reaction was surprise, but she didn’t tell him it was wrong. Now, it is true that children must learn when/where it is appropriate to touch themselves, but teaching them that any part of their bodies are disgusting or dirty or that touching certain parts is disgusting or dirt is a very sad thing to do. Teaching children to hate or fear parts of their bodies or their physical sensations is the real sin. Yet, well-meaning parents or caregivers, who were probably taught the very same things, pass on these beliefs everyday.

The body is of nature. And, I ask you how is anything created in nature? The answer is sex – in one form or another. Animals must copulate to reproduce. Bees carry pollen from one to flower to another. Trees produce seeds in hopes they will become buried in the ground in an effort to grow new trees. Do people typically believe that animals reproducing, bees carrying pollen, or trees dropping seeds are sinful acts? No. Then why has human sexuality become so taboo over the centuries?

Thousands of years ago sexuality and women were revered. Yet, somewhere along the way that all changed. It is true that sex can be used in terribly inappropriate ways from rape and molestation to degrading pornography. But, sex is truly the most beautiful thing two people can share.

When two people are in a loving relationship they can journey along a path to join their hearts, their energies, and their spirits through sacred lovemaking and intimacy. Due to the fact that there are so many taboos and so many people have been raised with negative beliefs around sex, there are vast numbers of problems within couples’ relationships that stem from their sex lives. When a couple can move past the taboos, learn that their lovemaking is their business and no one else’s, and create a safe space for each other, their sexual experiences can transcend this world and earthly pleasure.

Not only is sex not sinful within a loving relationship it is a bridge to one’s spiritual connection. This is not about being religious. It is about connecting to one’s spiritual self as everyone is truly a spiritual being having a human experience. Cherishing one’s sexual relationship with his/her partner is one key to opening to divine connection. Honoring each other through sacred sex and honoring the relationship offers an opportunity for vast amounts of love and joy to flow into a couple’s life.

Janelle Alex, M.Msc. is co-founder of Inward Oasis, http://www.inwardoasis.com, with her husband, Rob Alex. She is an International Media Host and offers Relationship Coaching, Sacred Sexual Coaching, Spiritual Coaching, and Dream Exploration. She holds degrees in psychology as well metaphysics. She is also certified in Reiki. Ms. Alex believes that a committed relationship can have a deep spiritual connection. She, along with her husband, help couples expand upon their relationship by accessing their combined energy and their spirituality as a couple as well as individuals.

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